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Rowan Dennis's avatar

As a post-grad with a minor in social work and not quite sure what direction the Lord wants me to take with work, I’m re-considering casework because of this article! Thank you for bringing in the redemptive factor and helping the reader to re-consider how the system could be reformed to serve its purpose of redemption even better.

Rachel Ward's avatar

I have many thoughts on this. My family recently adopted a toddler out of the foster system. It is a broken and confusing system indeed. Our hearts were on the altar for years, both wanting the mother to be healed and capable of caring for her children and also wanting to fiercely protect and nurture the child. It seems as though the mother (or parents, if the father is involved) receives preferential treatment at the beginning of the case, and sometimes the child languishes in dangerous, confusing, and unhealthy states for months or years while "the system" tries to help mom. Then, if she doesn't make gains, the system is actually quite harsh and unforgiving toward her and essentially leaves her to figure it out on her own. Then the child gets more favorable attention, but sometimes this is too late for them.

If not for a strong community around us, we would've collapsed after pouring out so much with so few rights. The meetings are countless—court dates, the weight of ensuring a child is meeting milestones, and getting all of the healthcare and support they need. There are the puzzle pieces of trying to understand a mysterious background with minimal support from social services. The caseworkers are well-intentioned but do lack the education, investigative skills, and other capabilities that make them really effective at their work. I found many of them struggled with addictions and poor lifestyle choices that made them distracted and forgetful at times when professionalism and shrewdness were direly needed.

The court system is a confusing maze. The Guardian ad Litem program is ostensibly there... but it was hit-or-miss in our case and wildly unhelpful. The children are left in such vulnerable positions and sometimes passed from home to home depending on the capabilities of the foster families, which struggle and stumble as any families do. The compensation comes and goes and is really a drop in the bucket compared to the amount of work and endless hours one gives to helping hurt and sometimes very unwell children.

In short, major reform is needed. I joke that we should have wise, loving German grandmothers design and run the system. Clarity, common sense, and a loving approach to the mothers and children are needed. There are many ways the church and community could help, but the paths are not clearly delineated and it can feel so overwhelming that many don't even try. I'd love to be in a think tank that seeks to scrap and redesign how we do this in America.

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